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Saturday, May 31, 2008
/ 1:13 AM   oh yes and thank you so much for those who commented on my tag. and it would be nice if passerby x would like to tell me how is he or she. =) hmmm. here's the thing. let me use A, B and C as the people. so A, B and C were in the car. then B played this song on the cd in the car. then A went what song is this. B went like you never hear before one la. then C said it's not nice right (something like that) immediately B went like shut up in a very HARSH tone. then the car was QUIET. right i know C was hurt no doubt directly after the shut up was said. even if it wasnt directing to A. A could feel that C would hurt after hearing that given A was in C's shoes. a while later B said C should start watching what C says cause one day C is just going to get scolded. from that time on C became real quiet. =/ i know la. when you like something then someone else dont like then say they dont like then you get offended but you do not need to use such a tone on people what. they were just stating their own opinions. could have said something like i like can already. or anything that isnt that harsh. hurting people's feelings isnt a very nice thing. and the person who got hurt confrim doesnt want to feel hurt as well. especially if the person who did the hurting still didnt realise that he/she actually hurt the other person. =/ comments? opinions? please let me know. thanks =) -whatamisupposetodonow- |